I love her, find her attractive and like her as a person, but we have a fundamental difficulty: we can’t talk about any kind of problem or anything personal. We can’t talk about this at all. I actually think my wife has shown signs that she could respond to that, but, of course, I dare not mention it. “It could be,” suggested Blacket, “that your talk about sex, and buying her sex toys and lingerie, has made her dig her heels in. Blacket also explained that often people hope for more communication about their sex life because they hope it will lead to more sex.

Source: The Guardian March 31, 2018 07:52 UTC